ed_bday

May, 31, 2002 Ed would have turned 60 years young. I asked Mairghread how we could mark the occasion in a tasteful way, and she felt a board to celebrate his life would be wonderful. So .... please join us in remembering him. Say hi - and if you have an "Ed story" we would love to hear one - don't be shy.

Mag mentioned that she and Ed didn't have all that many photos of themselves, so anyone who has any (Surrey 2000/2001 etc.) that she might not have, please feel free to e-mail them to me, post them here, or get in touch with Mairghread if you can snail mail them to her. I'll burn a CD of any posted here or e-mailed to me, and give it to her.

We also welcome Ed's family members and non-LOL friends to join us, and perhaps add their own comments.

I have also included the following links to different moments involving Ed at LOL for a trip down memory lane.

Thanks for sharing with us. ~ Judie & Mairghread

A MONTH HAS PASSED -- SASSY, 22:05:58 06/15/02 Sat

A month has passed since I said *CIRCLES* to my Packer Pal for the last time. I guess I just needed to come here for some comfort.

I NEVER was one who believed in talking to your loved ones after they had died.....until now. I feel Ed here with me every day and it just seems so right to talk with him. It shouldn't be any surprise that I feel this way -- Ed was a very important person in my life. He taught me to see things in myself that I didn't know where there. I learned some valuable lessons from him and I'm truly grateful.

Thanks Packer Pal - for making me feel so VERY special!

***CIRCLES***
Your Angel,
SASSY
XOXOX

Replies:
- (((((( Sassy )))))) :-) (NT) -- Judie, 10:54:09 06/16/02 Sun
ED -- Tamara, 18:47:33 06/06/02 Thu
I'm sitting here racking my brain, wishing I had a cool Ed story to tell. Truth is, there isn't one. Well...no specific story that is. The only thing I can say is how wonderful it was just knowing Ed. I know I mentioned it in the Kirk before, but what I remember most about Ed was his sincerity. He was so full of love and kindness, even from the moment I had just met him. He made you feel so welcome...no matter what the affair - Surrey, Starbucks gatherings, or especially to his home.

To me, it's almost cool that I have no Ed story, because Ed just being Ed has made an impact on me. Ed, I loved your smile too. :) I'm sending love to you, thank you for making it easy to know you.
To Ed -- Sassy, 22:26:31 05/31/02 Fri

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, PACKER PAL!!!

This is my favorite picture of the two of us. It was taken last October at Surrey. I have an infinite number of wonderful memories of my Packer Pal. He was one of the BEST friends I've ever had and I miss him dearly. I was known as "Ed's Angel" but now I feel he's become MY Angel and is watching over me.

I spent today planting a "memory garden" in honor of Ed and will be happy to share the pictures when they get developed.

***CIRCLES***

Replies:
- He had merry eyes, did my lad... Thank you for the joy you brought him.... (NT) -- Mairghread, 16:13:04 06/03/02 Mon
  - You are MOST welcome, my friend. It was a pleasure and an honor. (NT) -- SASSY, 14:05:26 06/04/02 Tue
"WOULD YOU LIKE CREAM OR SUGAR?" -- SASSY, 13:52:48 06/04/02 Tue

That's the question I should've asked Ed when I was visiting in March. He was awake quite early the first morning I was there. I asked if I could get him anything and he said he'd enjoy some coffee. Being a coffee-drinker myself, I gladly made a pot for us to share.

However, after a time I asked if I could warm his cup up a wee bit. He said yes and quietly added....."could you put a little milk and sugar in it, too?" I used to need milk and sugar in my coffee too so I could appreciate how bad black coffee must've tasted to him. I told him he should have said "hey! you forgot milk and sugar", but he said he didn't want me to have to go back out to the kitchen to add it. What a sweetie. I assured him I was there to do for him whatever I could, so he shouldn't think twice about asking me to get him anything he needed.

So - during the rest of my stay there, when I would get him some coffee or tea I would automatically say, "two sugars and some milk?". He would laugh and say "yes, please".

He was thoughtful about EVERYTHING and never wanted to take advantage of anyone's help. I think he realized that I WANTED to do for him whatever I could -- that it was my pleasure.

***CIRCLES***
An Ed Story -- Rick, 21:47:04 06/02/02 Sun
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One afternoon last summer I was driving a No. 10 Kootenay Loop bus through the busy intersection at Main and Hastings. This is an intersection where the people cross against the lights, doesn't matter if it's red, green or orange, they just go.

I coincidentally happened to be sitting at a red light with a full bus load, and who should drive by in front of me but Ed, on his scooter.

When I spotted Ed I yelled out my window "Hey, buddy, get that scooter out of my way!" I heard a gasp or two from my passengers, everyone else was silent and looking at me aghast. I was looking at Ed, waiting for some kind of acknowledgement. He didn't say anyhting and I was thinking "Oh, great, I'm going to get letters and everyone is looking at me like a mean bastard, talking to a guy in a scooter that way."

I was sweating bullets cause I looked like a real bastard.

Finally, Ed smiled and said "Hi, Rick", and waved, and I kind of breathed a sigh of relief.

The next time the local Vancouver gang met for coffee, we had a real laugh over that one, and Ed admitted to biding his time waiting and letting me sweat.

Ed sure had a sense of humour. Miss you, buddy.

Rick
To Ed, on his birthday -- JulieO, 22:54:34 06/01/02 Sat
Everything I wished to say has been well-said by others. I will miss Ed's posts, and regret that I didn't meet him in person.

A good man, and true. We will miss you, Ed.
Happy Birthday Ed!! We miss you. -- Aislinn, 23:40:26 05/31/02 Fri
I'm sorry I'm late, it's the first time I've checked the computer in a few days.
Herzlichste Glückwünsche Ed! A little late, but nevertheless from the bottom of my heart! -- Andrea-Germany, 23:11:50 05/31/02 Fri
When someone we love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. >>>> -- Gayle, 17:11:17 05/31/02 Fri
Cherishing you, Ed, and lovingly treasuring the memory of you.
Happy Birthday Ed!! -- Robyn, 13:32:41 05/31/02 Fri
Kindess like Eds is a cherished gift! We should all be so lucky to have his friendship.Love to you Mags!
Love Robyn
Peace and Blessings, Ed -- Madame Cardoza, 10:23:50 05/31/02 Fri
I wasn't able to experience Ed's warm spirit in person, but his kindess and courage was certainly felt through his visits here at Lallybroch. Happy Birthday, dear Ed and ((((Mags))))
Happy Birthday, Ed! -- JudithONH, 09:17:22 05/31/02 Fri
After seeing the page you made for Judie's BD Book, I can't say anything else through the tears. It's beautiful and I'll miss meeting you at Surrey this year. Slainte, Friend!
A Poem -- Marn, 08:38:16 05/31/02 Fri
I actually wrote this quite a few years back,but came across it recently and thought it fit Ed.

The Challenge Of Life
(Copyright, MLR, not to be reproduced)

From the moment we're born,we start to die
So live life to its fullest ,dont let it pass you by
If it's not a danger to yourself or others then dont be afraid to jump or ask how high

If your bored then your not living ,your heart is slowing down
Jump in the icy waters ,let the world wet you down
Dance between the flames ,let the spark light in your mind
Dont be afraid to get burnt,its how you know your alive

Make the world your canvas and splash the paint all around
Dont paint by numbers,let your hair hang down
Treat others with respect and you shall recieve it in return
Dont be afraid to turn your life lights on

Let the child inside you come out to play
Show your insecurities,thats how they go away
Tears are how your cleanse yourself ,so dont be afraid to let them flow
Touch a strangers life in passing ,for who they are you never know
Allow yourself to be touched ,its the only way to grow

Plant flowers for the butterflies to gather round
Admire the beauty of a weed,arent we all in need of alitle love
And above all, shoot for the moon......
For if you should fall your still among the stars
Happy birthday Ed, the newest LallyAngel watching over us... -- JennGB, 07:29:38 05/31/02 Fri
...I'll raise a glass to you tonight. Slainte!

I expect to pass through life but once. If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again. -William Penn-
Happy Birthday, Ed -- kgp, 06:37:43 05/31/02 Fri
I wish I had met you and could have let you know how special it was/is to be a part of this, your extended family. Your courage and gentleness and humor touched my life. Thank you.

Blessing to you, Ed.

And prayers of comfort for you, Mairghread. You are in my thoughts daily.
For Ed....... -- Gwen, 05:16:00 05/31/02 Fri
he was my friend and I miss him.

Nos da cariad

Gwen
It's not how long you live that is important...... -- Dee, 23:26:50 05/30/02 Thu
What is important is the number of friends you make along the way. Ed's passing was mourned by hundreds of people who had not even met him. That speaks volumes.
Happy Birthday Ed!!!! -- Cherie, 23:15:42 05/30/02 Thu
I'm one of the lucky ones! I got to meet Ed in Surrey 2000 & 2001 and in the summer in between when I was visiting.

Ed was always kind, and would stop to chat with you for a few moments. At Surrey 2001 he received my door prize. I remember telling him that I didn't think he'd have much use for the dragonfly ear rings. He just smiled, leaned over and whispered to me that he knew a beautiful woman he could give them to.

In his own way he has given LOL a whole new meaning. By his kindness he brought us together as a group, a community and as a family. We have lost one of our own, but he has given us so much in return.

Hope you have a Great one Ed!!!!!
Ed... I Know You Are Reading This -- SABRE, 22:36:02 05/30/02 Thu
Well Ed, the Cougars are having a little Birthday Celebration for you tomorrow night... I have a feeling your presence will be amongst us. I'll have a shot of whiskey in your honor!

Remember to save me a seat at the bar... somewhere in time we will enjoy a shot of whiskey together.

Happy Birthday Ed - you are missed...

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Kindness is never forgotton. -- Casidhe, 22:02:17 05/30/02 Thu
Being a "new" LOL, I was not fortunate to have been able to read all of the kind words left each day from Ed. Birthdays are special days, but Ed has made each day very special to those who looked forward to his posts. Words of kindness, encouragement, and humor were so uplifting to me on days that would have otherwise been very ordinary or sometimes less than enjoyable. My cup is raised to you, Ed, Happy Birthday and thanks for all of the kindness that will never be forgotten. I hope I have learned to follow your example and pass kindness on to others. Hugs to you,Mairghread.
Happy B-Day, Ed... -- Lea, 21:00:32 05/30/02 Thu
I visited with Ed at Surrey 2000 .I remember when he and Mags walked in the room,I knew who they were. I had never seen as much as a picture,but it was as plain as day.
When we were introduced,he grasped my hand and said,"So this is the farmer..." and we conversed as old friends. He was a gem.

My brother in law passed on the same day as our Ed and May 31 is his wife,Nancy's birthday as well. One more of life's endless coincidences. I like to think of Ed and Dick arriving in their new life together.I'm absolutely sure they will get along famously.

Happy,Happy B-day ,Ed from "the farmer"....
For the light that Ed brought into my life.... -- SherriD, 19:31:42 05/30/02 Thu
I'll light a candle tomorrow and complete a random act of kindness in his memory...
Happy Birthday to Ed -- Norma D., 19:31:27 05/30/02 Thu
When my father died I was told that God needed a special angle to help him out. Well, I know that he has two now. My father and Ed. I never met him but enjoyed him so much from the boards that I felt like I knew him. Hears hopeing that he is having a good birthday with the angles.
ED -- ElizabethG, 19:18:24 05/30/02 Thu
I remember some of your first posts on the boards -- about the same time I was making my firsties I think! I remember signing on and scrolling to look for and read Ed's posts first because they always brought a smile to my face. Kindness at LOL is now spelled with just two letters-- E, D. Happy Birthday Ed.
Happy Birthday, Ed! -- KarynM, 18:58:37 05/30/02 Thu
From another who never had the pleasure to meet you, I am happy to have shared a part of your spirit here at Lallybroch. This place is amazing!
Hugs to you too, Mags, as you deal with your grief and move on with life. I know you know this, but, we are all here for you always. XOXOXO
Karyn
What a beautiful day... -- Angel, 18:49:13 05/30/02 Thu
Because I know you are watching us all Ed! What a kind and generous soul you are. I never had the good fortune to meet Ed in person, but I am thankful that I was able to meet him here. (((((HUGS)))) Ed
Chocolate Angel Food Cake for Ed -- TeriB, 18:28:12 05/30/02 Thu
I never met Ed but his posts and emails made me laugh. Thanks for the gift of kindness, Ed.
Happy birthday to Ed. May you long watch over us in Lallybroch. Love and huggles to Mairghread -- Le Phae, 18:27:33 05/30/02 Thu
Happy Birthday Ed. May your memory never cease! -- Chris, 17:46:14 05/30/02 Thu
I guess I was one of the lucky ones to have met Ed. Not just in 2000, but also in 2001 at Surrey. Others have stated already what a kind sweet man he was and how he made you feel welcome. He always had a kind word and always said a special phrase (which for the life of me I canna remember right now) when leaving his company. It made you feel special - just as he was special.
I'll miss seeing him in Surrey and hearing his kind words. (And embarrasing him with references to Chocolate. ;-) Mags knows! *G*) So on your birthday Ed, a toast to you and your memory! Love, your wee Baylor Bear fan! *G*

*Sekrit message to Mags: I have a few photos of you and Ed from the two Surrey's. I"ll snail mail them to ya as I dinna have a scanner! Hugs & Mwahs Lass!
I wish I could be more eloquent, but lots of folks have said it better further on down. -- Jamie's Mom, 16:41:21 05/30/02 Thu
I, too, never had the chance to meet Ed, and deeply regret that now it can never happen. He has always sounded like a darlin' man, and reminds me of my late FIL, who always held my hand when we went out together as a family. Happy Birthday, Ed, darlin'. I only wish that there had been many more. The world is richer for your having been here, and the poorer for your passing. Slainte!
Thinking of Ed on his birthday -- Ceilidh, 16:36:07 05/30/02 Thu
Ed has touched all of our hearts so much...he is part of why we all LOVE Lallybroch so much. The KINDNESS that is shared by all in our corner of the internet...it is an unbelievable GIFT.

Hope you are having one heck of a kitchen party where you are...you are in our HEARTS forever.

Much love
Christine, Chris, Joey (who mentions you often being with his grandpa) and Declan
Happy Birthday Ed... Your memory will live on in each of our hearts. Peace to you, friend -- HeatherS, 15:43:47 05/30/02 Thu
Happy Birthday Ed........ -- Lady Tam, 15:16:17 05/30/02 Thu
I had a card picked out to send to Ed for his birthday...on the front there are people parachuting out of planes into a city setting, banners hang from the skyscrapers all screaming "Happy Birthday"...I'd doctored it up with 'Ed' signs all over the front. Inside it read, "I just told a few hoser friends it's your birthday." I keep it in my copy of the Outlandish Companion now. A reminder of the compassion and love of LOL.
Happy Birthday Ed -- Debra Mc, 14:58:27 05/30/02 Thu
"The highest wisdom is kindness." The Talmud
In memory of Ed -- Florence, 14:33:38 05/30/02 Thu
I am happy for this chance to commemorate your birthday.

Having known you only on these boards, it speaks volumes about your character that I feel as bereft at your leaving as I would a most dear friend.

Peace be with you, friend.
I never met Ed in this life (my great loss)>>>> -- Valerie L., 14:24:28 05/30/02 Thu
But I feel, through all his wonderful posts, that I know him better than some people I see every day. May we be friends in the next life, Ed...this one is richer for you having been in it.
In memory -- Dave, 14:06:25 05/30/02 Thu
Ed will live in our memories as he lived his life. Always with a kind word or deed and a big smile.
Rest well friend.
Although we never met.... -- yvette, 13:58:38 05/30/02 Thu
I always looked forward to seeing your posts, Ed. I raise a glass for your birthday and to yoour memory.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ED -- STAYLOR, 13:30:41 05/30/02 Thu
I never had the honour of meeting Ed in person. I always found myself drawn to him on the boards though, always looking for his posts. He seemed to have a way of lifting my spirits. Happy Birthday.
Although we never met in person... -- Jeanie, 13:18:52 05/30/02 Thu
Ed, I think we were well met all the same and I'm sure I'll know you as a friend when I do meet you someday.

I read your post at the end of the Hammie interview, and I think it's the most eloquent and beautiful benediction I have ever received: May your tomorrows become your wishes. You've helped teach us all grace, courage and love...I for one will never forget you and know that you will be with us forever.

Peace my friend. And a very heartfelt Thank You.
Happy Birthday, Ed! -- Lady Jay, 12:40:51 05/30/02 Thu
Count me among those who may not have ever met Ed in person, but were touched by just having known him. :-) What a treasure you were, and what a treasure you continue to be! Here's to celebrating you, Ed! Happy Birthday!
I'll raise a glass -- Ceit's Mom, 12:19:44 05/30/02 Thu
I'm another hoser who only had the privilege of knowing Ed through the Boards, but feel genuinely thankful for having known him, even if not personally. I'll raise a glass of
Bushmill's in your honour, Ed.
For he's a jolly good fellow. . . -- Reid, 11:54:06 05/30/02 Thu
I never met Ed, but his story moved me just as it has everyone else on the boards. Happy Birthday to him, and hugs to mags and his family and Judie for this wonderful celebration.
Here's to you, ED! -- Merc, 11:41:45 05/30/02 Thu
I know you're celebrating a different kind of birthday this year, but celebrating all the same.

There are several Ed bits that I will share. I just remember how impressed I was at the spunk he showed in taking computer classes a year or so ago! I wish some of the folks I work with showed as much gumption in staying up with technology. Also, I loved hearing about him reading poetry to Mags, since he knew she loved it. I sweet guy with gumption and a romantic streak, too! Happy Birthday, Ed!
A toast to you, Ed. -- M.F., 11:36:58 05/30/02 Thu
I first met Mags and Ed a few summers ago. My brother lives in west end Vancouver and I called Mags while I was visiting there and we arranged to meet for lunch. She and Ed drove down to a corner on Denman street and since there was nowhere to park they told me to hop in. I did, we found a parking spot and a restaurant and had a nice visit. Ed was so thoughtful (said I was brave for getting into a car with people I had met on the internet). That was the first year I went to Surrey - being an introvert, it was wonderful to be able to sit with people I knew. I've been to Surrey twice now and sat with Ed for part of each visit. Last time we talked about my mom who had recently passed away and Ed was very comforting. He always made me feel like I was a special friend - and I know he did that with everybody he met. I happened to be in Van in February and happened to call the day before the wedding (I had no idea). I feel very privileged to have been invited to witness the marriage of Ed and Mags - and thought it very cool that Ed took Mags last name.
A drink to your birthday, my special friend.
Happy Birthday Ed -- maryann g, 11:30:36 05/30/02 Thu
Reading all the kind words spoken here and throughout the boards about Ed I really feel I have missed something great in my life for never knowing him.
To Ed's family and friends I send my warmest wishes and to Ed I wish a wonderful birthday. I wish I could have been blessed with your friendship. Mabey through everyones kind words I do know you in a way.
Ed, I know you're up there. -- MARCIE, 10:42:30 05/30/02 Thu
And you're smiling down and having a grin that we are still so "Lallysilly". I never had the honor of meeting you in person but I remember when I first starting seeing your post you were getting enough computer confidence to take on a few classes. What an inspiration to me you were! I thought... If Ed can get this posting crap right and keep the Lallycops off his butt so can I. I came out of lurkdom more often and joined in the "lallyhoos" on the boards. Thanks for that Ed. Happy Birthday dude! You will always have a fond place in my heart. May you be waiting for me at a table in the back with all our Lallypals when I get there.
Ed -- JaniceM, 10:40:10 05/30/02 Thu
Ed.......hell of a guy, IMO. Even he did persist in cheering on that OTHER team *g*, Ed was always in good spirits and full of joy.
I remember having several all too brief conversations with him; he was interested in all sorts of things. He could chat about the books, things to see in BC, the geo-political cuture of the C21 and all things bright and beautiful. I could tell he would get uncomfortable but he never gave into his ailments, he's just say...."I gotta sit down now." and carry on.
I will miss him in Surrey this October. I was with Charyl and drm when they told me of his passing and we raised a glass to his memory. A spider came to visit us in the booth...was it Ed? Not yet a bat? Like to think he paused and touched us yet again.
He was so overwhelmed by the quilt the Lallyquilters made him and so humble about the "shower" we orchestered for the newlyweds. Ed, did you ever believe us when we said we loved you? I hope so, 'cause it was true.
This year I vote we dedicate Thursday night in Surrey to Ed! Hugs to his family. Janice
Happy birthday Ed! -- Colleen, 09:42:44 05/30/02 Thu
It's funny - I don't remember any particular conversations with Ed the two times I met him - at Surrey in 2000, and 2001, but I remember how nice he was, how genuinely interested he was in me and what I had to say, and how impressed I was that he "tolerated" all of us hosers and our antics! He seemed to genuinely enjoy each and every one of us, as much as we enjoyed him - and his lovely wife Mags.

As always - love you both.

Colleen
Such an honor -- Lady Olivia, 08:43:42 05/30/02 Thu
It is an honor to celebrate Ed's life and love, even though I had never had the blessing of meeting him. But he lives on, in our hearts and minds.

Ed, thanks for your moments here. You made LOL an even more comforting place to hang out.

Love to all who loved Ed so,
Lady Olivia
Happy Birthday ED! -- Gypsyjean, 08:43:04 05/30/02 Thu
I never got to meet you in person, but I will always treasure having met you online and your kindness quotes touched my heart , I thank you for that!
Ciao ED! -- Eva, 08:39:58 05/30/02 Thu
I've never met you, but it is like I would know you, at least a bit.
Of what I've read, of what you've written, of how you've written... I still remember a post of yours, on the Social Board, where you said that Mags told you to change your style, that no one would understand you because of the language you used! I was here, smiling and trying to understand your Newfoundlandese *g*, and glad someone else (besides me) was writing in a bit a weird way.
That was ages ago, I really liked your way of writing, your way of thinking about different issues, I liked what I read in your Hammie interview. There's lot of things we shared the way of thinking. I wish I had a chance to meet you. But I will, one day! Ti voglio bene!

Thank you, Mairghread, for sharing, and for being a special person!
I'm just going to write what I just kinda put in a card for Mags because it's how I remember Ed. :-) -- M&M, 08:37:19 05/30/02 Thu
My fondest memory of Ed was last year at Surrey....

I have no idea who had the idea of bringing this red sticky rubber weenis (like those kids wallwalkers), but someone did and soon it was flying across this banquet room. I didn't want to touch it....it was kinda gross all covered with lallylint. *g* Anyway....Ellie, Aislinn, Scotty and I were parking our arses at this table for quite awhile and posing for pictures. Many of you still owe us a dollar!

Anyway.....Ed was sitting at the back side of the table then I heard him in this grumbled voice say something(I have no idea what) and then a big WHAM! This flying weenis went right over his head and hit the partition wall. He grumbled something else, picked it up and then just kinda smiled.

I thought.....what a guy! To put up with all these women who think sending a lallylint filled red rubber weenis flying is so much fun!

Mr. Ed.....you are missed!!!!!
Hi Ed! -- Charyl, 08:23:56 05/30/02 Thu
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I had an interesting experience in Vermont this past weekend. I like to think that it was Ed paying me a visit. :-)

I was all ready for bed and what flies into my room? A bat.

We played dodgem for a while and then called it quits for the night. The next morning the bat was taken off the wall and let loose outside. I grabbed the digital camera and took a pic. :-)

Hey Ed, next time you visit, can we stay outdoors? ;-)

See ya later, Ed! I'll leave the light off for ya. :-)
May 31st -- ..., 08:20:30 05/30/02 Thu
Also born on this day:
Walt Whitman
Don Ameche
Joe Namath
Clint Eastwood
Brooke Shields
And My Mom (who is 80 this year)
Just to name a few

You sure were in good company, weren't ya, bud?

I miss your happy fingers on the board.

Love,
CF
I will ALWAYS treasure our friendship. -- Hedy, 08:06:43 05/30/02 Thu
I will ALWAYS think of you when I make Lemon Merengue Pies. I will ALWAYS think of you when I am near Cordova/Gore. I will ALWAYS remember our deal toghether - find something HAPPY or FUN in every day! I will ALWAYS remember how KIND you were. The repeated theme we heard as well all remembered you is KIND! Well, I KIND of miss you man!
Love,Hedy
Happy Birthday -- drm, 07:25:47 05/30/02 Thu
We sure miss you ED but I know that you're lighting up the other side with your humor and charm
much as you did LOL. Don't forget to put in a good word with the "Big Guy" for all of us :+).
Happy Birthday ED. -- Wendy W, 06:53:43 05/30/02 Thu
I am an other hoser that has not meet ED, but I feel I know him through his post on the boards. A great and kind person, why is it all the good ones get taken from us to soon! Any way Ed have a ball!
Missing your Kindness Quotes, Ed. Didn't get to meet you here, maybe there... -- Shari, 06:48:15 05/30/02 Thu
Ed I'll miss seeing you again at Surrey . I'm very grateful I did meet you last year. >>> -- Lucy and Roger, 06:48:06 05/30/02 Thu
I think of you often and Mairghread. Eternal Happiness to you.
Ed's life was an inspiration. -- rosemcg, 06:47:04 05/30/02 Thu
Thinking of Ed -- Keira, 05:40:51 05/30/02 Thu
Wish I could have met you in person, Ed. It would have been a blast. I loved your posts and your views on different things. Hope you're having a huge party bash up there to celebrate your life here with us!!! Know that we'll all be joining you one day!!! :-D
Happy birthday Ed- wish I could've met ya. -- littlebit, 04:11:31 05/30/02 Thu
Hello Ed. -- Lady Leven, 03:40:56 05/30/02 Thu
Like me, a fellow gemini, therefore easy to laugh and smile, with a great sense of humor! I never met you Ed, but knew you well through the boards and feel humbled by your love for Mairghread and kindness to all. I hope to meet you one day and share a joke or two!
thinking of ed on his 60th -- ali cat, 00:24:46 05/30/02 Thu
-----i bet you are making heaven a better place ---the same as you made it better here on earth---hope you are showing everyone your geordie bible and having a giggle together----love to you ed,, from ali cat
Happy Birthday Ed -- JackieR, 00:12:37 05/30/02 Thu
Ed's kindness quotes really touched my heart. Knowing that Ed was so sick but he still thought of us each day... well he was a lovely kind man.

If everyone did their next act of kindness in memory of Ed, I can just imagine that his heart would burst with pride - watching knowing that one act of kindness often leads to another and another and another. What a world we could create.

Happy Birthday to a Kind hoser. One of the best.
Lallylove
Thinking of you, Ed -- Judie, 23:54:06 05/29/02 Wed
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Ed was one of the Vancouver hosers who have been meeting for the past few years at Starbucks for a chat and a coffee. It was always a pleasure to be around Ed, he just seemed like such a gentle man. He always seemed so happy to see everyone. He kept you entertained with stories all the time.

Actually, it was weird that Ed died at 1 a.m. on May 16th, which was my birthday. Kind of cosmic - karma?

That night I happened to be online with Eva from about midnight to 4 a.m. (me in Vancouver, her in Italy, where it was early morning) because she had sent me 3 binders full of messages from the LOL gang for my birthday.

The message for May 31st was from Ed. I'm looking at it now. It was the only one that made me cry. It just seems so "ED" to me.

One thing I didn't know until today when Mairghread told me, was that Ed was a painter and a poet. Figures I wouldn't know that - I never heard him blow his own horn once!

You can see it HERE. Thanks, Ed. Love ya!

Judie

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- What a beautiful page. I think you need to put it in a frame - not hide it in the binders. (NT) -- JackieR, 00:07:15 05/30/02 Thu

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